How easy it is to get physical with someone than to be emotionally connected with someone.
How easy it is to talk about random stuff than talk about your dreams and vision.
How easy it is to argue than to understand the other person and be quiet.
How easy it is to make love than to build love with someone.
How easy it is to sleep with someone than to wake with someone who is distant.
How easy it is to hangout than spend time qualitatively.
How easy it is to be passive than being involved.
How easy it is to stay silent than to understand the silence of someone.
The things that are easy are common and superficial while the things which are challenging are rare and most intimate in the real sense.
We encounter different types of people. Some get a career early, some build love and get committed for life while there are others who are progressing in every sphere but their pace is different from the former ones.
While walking down the lane, we experience setbacks and they often tend to affect us. In this as well, two types of people exist: first category includes Fixed Mindset which has those who holds a perspective “I didn’t do well. So results didn’t turn out well. And this means that this field is not meant for me. I’m unworthy of achieving anything”. Second category includes Growth Mindset which has those people who has a view “I didn’t do well so results were against me. I’m going to work on my mistakes and am going to crack the exam or achieve this particular thing, dream or goal the next time. I’m worthy of it and I have to work harder and results will follow”. People who hold a growth mindset tend to be the ones who see failure as a means to improve and learn. They keep on growing and are self motivated to stay optimistic even if things don’t turn out well.
There is nothing wrong or right about following a certain mindset. However, fixed mindset ones tend to be reluctant to change or change their perspective while growth ones tend to be flexible and see success as dynamic which helps them to keep the cycle of learning alive.
Thus, we shall keep on exploring and challenging our fixed mindsets and we never know what all we can unfold about ourselves and how far we can travel. 🙂
There are times for few of us when we feel extremely restless and anxious because of specific things and are not able to calm ourselves down. When we feel paralyzed to go for a walk or do workout or listen to music or do anything that would help.
The times when we need someone in person to hold us, instruct us and make us calm. And sometimes we don’t have anyone by our side. Those are the times which test our patience and resilience to the extreme. All we can do is to control ourselves from doing something destructive or something that could cause self harm. If we are able to control us, we are able to cross that phase. If not, then a massive havoc can happen
It is not easy to let us be in whatever way we are at that moment but trying to be and self control can help a lot. And everything which we experience builds us even the anxiety.
First step is usually the hardest and then continuing after setbacks is indeed more harder. During such phases, we shall never forget the reason of taking up that step. Reminding the reason on a regular basis makes you stay determined and patient towards your path.
It is been said What comes easy, doesn’t last longer. The easier the route, the lesser this route sustain and lesser you will accomplish. The challenging the journey, the longer it will stay and will make you achieve more.
Remember the purpose of your words, decisions, and actions..for it is the one which will not let you lose the hope and efforts, and will make you keep the focus intact.